Have you ever heard one of these:
·         “I can’t believe you bought me that.”
·         “That color looks terrible on me.”
.          “I wanted the bigger one.”
·         “It’s not what I asked for.”
·         “You spent too much on that.”
In Ellen Kreidman’s book “Light His Fire”, she says “Appreciate the man, not the gift”. This works
for both genders. [...]